The journey to find my own Every Day Magic...

Freedom from codependency has been the biggest piece of my own personal development journey. Some years ago, my coach gently but firmly pointed me in the direction of book that changed my life; "Codependent No More" by Melody Beattie blew me away. 

The thing is, codependency doesn't stop you functioning. It might stop you from getting where you want to go - it might stop you from being as happy as you could be - and it might stop you being as productive as you wish - but you can still function in 'normal life'. 

What I didn't realise was that I made every single decision in life from a place of "What would they want me to do??" "What will people think??" "Will they still like me if I say this??" I had to ask everyone around me before I made a decision, I didn't trust my own opinion. I had lost me. In fact, I don't think that I had ever really had her. Kate. I really didn't know who she was or what she wanted... I was in my thirties, married, with a life that appeared perfect from the outside, but I wasn't happy. Because I didn't know myself. That journey - the journey to learn who I am and what I want - has brought me here. 

Kate Emmerson - Every Day Magic - is borne of this journey and so is my desire to share these beautiful tools with others, so that they too can cease feeling adrift, insecure, lost, unsure, fearful. I'm not afraid to say I'm still learning, in fact I'm intensely proud of it. I'm by no means perfect and I know now that's a big part of life too, that it's OK to be imperfect. We are all perfectly so!! We are all a work in progress. But we can heal our wounds and we can heal our hearts. Because learning to love, wholeheartedly, is the most important journey of all and it starts with loving you.

The kind of coaching I do is transformational. That means you are going to change. Be reborn. Transition. It's not easy work, it is challenging and it's exciting but my goodness, it's worth the effort!! Imagine feeling like you can conquer anything... Like you can choose a goal, set out a timeline and go get it!! Like you can attract into your life whatever you desire - purely by getting clear and focussed. A whole world of exciting possibility is out there to be tapped in to... With just a sprinkle of Every Day Magic!

10 March 2018